To seek validation of self-worth from others.
when you are content to simply by yourself without comparing and competing to impress others everyone worthwhile will respect you and even more importantly you will respect yourself. How are you letting others divine you? What will you do differently if you knew nobody will judge you? Truth be told no one has the right to judge you. People may have had your stories and they may think they know you but they can’t feel what you are going through they aren’t leaving your life. So forget what they think and say about you focus on how you feel about yourself and keep walking the path that feels better and I off it. Those who accept you and your friends. Those who don’t are your teachers. If someone calls you something and it’s true it’s not your problem because it’s so if someone calls you something and it’s not true it’s not your problem because it’s not true either way whatever they call you is not your problem what other people could use their problem.
W what do you call yourself and who you decide to become is your problem.